Live, Look, Feel Beautiful

Our slogan is the strategy we live by here at La Bella Hair Studio. Our stylists are highly trained professionals who can keep you to date on the latest trends, as well as give you a style that is personalized to your lifestyle. Our convenient, relaxing location is a getaway experience when you are here.

We started this blog for those who have had bad hair days, but needed a little extra help with tips and techniques to help transform your day to day look. Now it has evolved into a place where you can still get those tips, but also can stay informed on what is going on in our community. We want everyone to embrace the beauty around them-especially the beauty within.
It is my mission to help all of us see what true beauty surrounds us.

La Bella Hair Studio. Live, Look, Feel Beautiful

Monday, September 29, 2014


La Bella's slogan "Live, Look, Feel Beautiful" is more to us than just a catch phrase-- it is a vision set forth by our founder/owner, Jessie, because she knew that she wanted our salon to represent more than just helping people with their looks (although we are pretty good at it!). She wanted La Bella Hair Studio to encompass and embrace beauty in all aspects of life, which is something we strive for every day. It is important to embrace the beauty within yourself and the community in which you live.This year on our blog we're featuring a series called "La Bella Vita," meaning "The Beautiful Life." We have made it our mission to find twelve special people within our community, who have somehow impacted the lives around them, to be featured every month.

This month we all know that everyone who is in school is back in school- so I thought how more appropriate than to feature a professor from a very well renowned university right here in Richmond? I introduce to you Amy Treonis, a Chicago native who found her way to Richmond and is now a professor and research scientist at the University of Richmond. She was kind enough to agree to being our featured person and let me give her a fabulous makeover!

Introducing Amy!









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After the makeover I had an interview with Amy about her life as a female scientist/professor, check it out!

Q: Where are you from? What brought you to Richmond?

 A: I am from Forest Park, Illinois, which is a suburb of Chicago.  I came to Richmond to work at the University of Richmond.  That said, I love history and I was eager to move here. I can't think of too many places where you can find as much history as you can in Richmond and the state of Virginia.   I really enjoy traveling around the state and exploring.  

Q: How long have you been working at U of R? What do you teach? 

  A: I have been working at U of R since 2005.  I teach a crazy mix of classes, including "Microbiology", "Astrobiology", "Microbial Ecology", and "Eating Locally, Thinking Globally". 

Q: How did you know you wanted to become a professor?

I knew I wanted to be a professor when I went to college.  I loved being part of a university community, and I got into biology and biological research.  It's a long journey to become a professor (4 years undergrad + 6 years of graduate school), and I feel really fortunate to have landed at U of R, which is an amazing university.  

Q: I know you work in research, what exactly are you researching and what does it entail?

A: I am a soil ecologist, and I study the microscopic organisms that live in soils. Soils are some of the most biologically diverse systems on Earth, and the things that live in soil do a lot of things for us, like growing our food, cleaning air and water of pollutants, and influencing our global climate. 
Most of my experiments these days are conducted in the Mojave Desert, in Death Valley National Park, where my students and are studying a group of microscopic worms called nematodes.   We're trying to understand how the extreme temperatures in Death Valley affect nematode communities.  It's always fun to go on research expeditions to the desert and camp and explore while collecting soils.  Most of the hard work of collecting data from the soils happens in the lab at UR though, where my students and I use microscopes and molecular biology to study the nematodes. 

Q: What is you favorite part of your job?

A: I think the best part is that my job is so varied. In a single day, I might go from teaching a class, to working on the microscope in my lab, to analyzing data on the computer, to discussing curriculum at a faculty meeting, to planning a field trip.   So, I'm always facing different intellectual challenges, which keeps things interesting.  I also really enjoy teaching and helping students learn, which is so empowering for them.  I feel like I am making a difference.  

Q: Are there any cool perks and/or disadvantages for being a female scientist/researcher?

A: I think that I belong to a generation of scientists that has benefited from increasing awareness of the challenges that women have faced in science, which include everything from outright discrimination, to sexual harassment, to a lack of maternity leave policies.  I'm lucky to have had experienced and helpful mentorship throughout my career.  Things are better today than they ever have been for women in science (although there are still things we need to work on).  I'm happy to say that my gender isn't something I think about too much.  A perk of being a female scientist might be having a keen awareness of how important role models and mentorship are to students from all genders, races, and backgrounds.  

Q: If you could teach/research in another field of science, what would it be and why?

A: I would definitely study Physics, which might sound crazy, but I realize more all the time how much more I could understand about the universe if I only knew more Physics.  

If there is anything else you would like to add, feel free!! I want you to be a organic as possible

A: I'm definitely somewhat of an egghead, and I love my work, but I am also into binge-watching Scandal, listening to dubstep, and spinning.

From all of us at La Bella- a special thank you to Amy for allowing us to have you as our featured person for La Bella Vita!! We hope you are enjoying your fabulous new look!!

La Bella Hair Studio Live, Look, Feel Beautiful
Inspire.

Monday, July 14, 2014

La Bella Vita Featuring: The Beautiful You

La Bella's slogan "Live, Look, Feel Beautiful" is more to us than just a catch phrase-- it is a vision set forth by our founder/owner Jessie because she knew that she wanted our salon to represent more than just helping people with their looks (although we are pretty good at it!). She wanted La Bella Hair Studio to encompass and embrace beauty in all aspects of life, which is something we strive for every day. It is important to embrace the beauty within yourself and the community in which you live.This year on our blog we're featuring a series called "La Bella Vita," meaning "The Beautiful Life." We have made it our mission to find twelve special people within our community, who have somehow impacted the lives around them, to be featured every month.

Well, this month we are putting a different spin on things. It is now July, and if you live in Richmond, you know that comes with sticky heat and limited options on ensemble. Here at La Bella we believe that no matter what the season you should always feel beautiful, no matter what time of year it is! With that said, YOU are the featured person of the month, and our main focus will be giving you the tools to not only feel beautiful throughout the summer, but also give you some pointers on how to enjoy it to the fullest potential! My mission is to show you how to enjoy your summer by using the La Bella slogan. 
                                                                  


                                                                   Live Beautiful
Being a Richmonder since the moment I was born, I have always found it easy to enjoy the perks and attractions this city has to offer.....yet during the summer I don't feel I embrace Richmond or give it enough credit for having summery things. With that said, I went around and spoke to a few locals to see what kind of things were available to those of us who overlook the potential our little city has to offer. I asked them where they would recommend someone to visit during the summer in Richmond.

" My favorite Richmond spot to keep everyone cool and entertained in my family is Cobblestone Water Park down rt. 33"

"It's awesome that Lewis Ginter has a splash zone which is fun for little kids!"

"Pony Pasture is a must see in Richmond, if you haven't been, you haven't had the true Richmond experience,"


                                                                   Look Beautiful

First and foremost, how many of us suffer from terrible frizz during the summer? (Aka the "Richmond Curse")
This girl makes it look cute, and let's be real: it's not!

Product, product, and product will be your absolute best friend! It may sound cliche, and I'm sorry but I'm not sorry...there is a reason we hair stylists are constantly talking about products: they really do work! One common misconception about managing frizz is that silicone/oil based products applied to dry hair are the best suit of armor.....NOT TRUE. There are other ways we can prevent frizz that doesn't jeopardize the overall appearance of your hair...... because let's face it: oil can weigh us down and make us feel stickier than we already feel during these hotter months. It's hard to believe, but there is a water based product that you apply to damp hair, that can actually control your frizz AND static all at once.....that product is Moroccanoil Frizz ControlMoroccanoil® Frizz Control is a must for all hair prone to frizz, whether it's natural, dry, curly or straight. It eliminates frizz and controls static in any weather. Its weather-resistant properties weightlessly safeguard hair whether you have winter hair (in excessively dry conditions) or summer hair (in excessively humid conditions) keeping it smooth, calm and manageable. It is the ideal/must have product of the summer, and no matter what kind of hair you are sporting, it is completely suitable for you. 


Second thing to think of is SPF! Always always use SPF, and (although you should never leave the house without applying SPF to the skin) I am not talking about skin sun protection! Your hair is just as much (if not more) susceptible to sun damage as your skin is. The biggest fear of sun damage is faded color, and unfortunately, those of us who have artificial hair color are not the only victims. All of us can suffer from faded hair color thanks to the pumping sun rays.

Keep in mind: if your skin is getting darker, your hair is getting lighter.

The best product, user friendly for all hair types, is Unite's 7Seconds Condition All day, everyday of the year, your hair faces the risk of sun damage, and if you have color treated hair you are at even more of a risk of fading! Nourished and fortified with the perfect balance of light protein and moisturizers, 7SECONDS seals the cuticle and protects your hair all day long. A must for chemically treated hair and as a UV and thermal protector for all. Fun fact: All of Unite's hair products are equipped with SPF.

Third and finally (once you've prevented frizz and sprayed a sun protector in your hair) let's not forget about cute methods of putting your hair back to keep it out of your way....we don't want you to go crazy because you don't know what to do with the coat of hair making you sweat. Just remember that if your hair is ever making you go mad, a side braid/pony is a wonderful way of hiding the fact that your at a loss of what to do with it. Even if you are adamant about having your hair down but can't seem to make it work,  couple of braids pinned back into the rest of your hair worn down is a great way to cover your tracks.

Let's be real: the one to the left is just not happening, but the other 3 are a great alternative!
You CAN have the best of both worlds! A cute 'do with little work is completely feasible. 

                                                        
                                                                 Feel Beautiful

During the hot months, we tend to see more and more people wearing less and less clothes. Naturally, that can make anyone feel a little less than beautiful. STOP RIGHT THERE. You are BEAUTIFUL no matter what time of year it is, and no matter what size bathing suit your neighbor's 16 year old niece wears. I have done some research on pointers to help you feel more comfortable in your own skin. Body type is one thing to think about, your body is beautiful. Your body is yours, so your body is unique. Sometimes we see someone else wearing something and love the way it looks, but we put it on ourselves and don't feel the same appreciation. This is because our bodies have their own specific shapes and looks and it's not the outfit that makes the body, but the body that makes the outfit. I did a little digging to find how to remind all of us to pair the perfect bathing suit with our already perfect bodies.


We are all capable of embracing our curves and angles, we just need to compliment what we have with the best suit for us!

Whether you are feeling at a loss for things to do during the hot season, can't seem to figure out how to tame your hair, or don't feel comfortable at the pool or beach: I am telling you that you are a beautiful person, with amazing potential. You deserve to remember that everyday you wake up until the moment you fall asleep. No matter what you are doing, you should never forget that. Take this as an assignment, make it your mission to live by the La Bella slogan....to Live, Look, and Feel beautiful everyday: because that's what you are.

La Bella Hair Studio. Live, Look, Feel Beautiful.
Inspire.

Tuesday, June 10, 2014

"La Bella Vita" Featuring: Gladiator Training

La Bella's slogan "Live, Look, Feel Beautiful" is more to us than just a catch phrase-- it is a vision set forth by our founder/owner Jessie because she knew that she wanted our salon to represent more than just helping people with their looks (although we are pretty good at it!). She wanted La Bella Hair Studio to encompass and embrace beauty in all aspects of life, which is something we strive for every day. It is important to embrace the beauty within yourself and the community in which you live.This year on our blog we're featuring a series called "La Bella Vita," meaning "The Beautiful Life." We have made it our mission to find twelve special people within our community, who have somehow impacted the lives around them, to be featured every month.

June is now here, and considering we did a Mother's Day theme last month, you may have guessed that we're following up with a Father's Day theme for this month. We're putting a different spin on this post though, because the dads for this month are doing something pretty cool in Richmond and I had the chance to meet both of them, cut their hair, and have an interview with one of them!


The dads are Brian Beckstoffer and Nate Bell, they are both Richmond natives and founders of a company called Gladiator Training. If you are at all into health and fitness, then you should definitely pay close attention, because these guys are offering a type of physical training that has yet to be done here in RVA. Gladiator Training, Inc focuses on an array of different strength training techniques from battling ropes, endurance training, kettlebells, to beyond body weight and chain reaction. It's some intense stuff, and after sitting down and hearing exactly what it is they do that sets them apart, I can truly appreciate just how dedicated these guys are to helping people push themselves physically and conquer their own strengths. 




Nate and Brian (courtesy of gladiatortrainingva.com)

Brian and I had the chance to sit down (at the Daily in Carytown) for a one on one to help me get a better understanding about Gladiator Training and how they came about. Check it out:


Q: How long have you two been partners in business and come up with the idea for Gladiator Training?
"We trained together for 2 years, and the style that we were training in we both liked. We saw that we could push it further...we had some friends come out with us every now and then and they liked it and started to see results, it was effective training. It was kind of out of the box,  unorthodox style training, but it worked. So after some talking, you know, another 6 months go by, we started talking about it and we decided, why not? Just try it out and see what we can do."

Q: So you discussed it and just decided to go with it?
"Yeah, we just said why not? We pretty much needed no overhead, we don't need a facility, everything's outside, everything we need we have. We've been effective this long, so we didn't have to go in and pull tons of money so there really was no risk there- the only risk there was our reputation so if we weren't able to satisfy people, and get them trained the way they wanted to or show them results, that was pretty much the only risk we had to worry about. So far, so good."

Q: I've been told it's not personal training, so what exactly is Gladiator Training and who is your ideal client? What sets you guys apart from other training/fitness companies?
"Our style of training is hard to explain. We focus on natural movements, but also we take pretty much simple workouts that people are used to and people understand, we're not creating anything new, except that we take these workouts and pretty much make them 10,000 times harder. Instead of running 6-10 miles by yourself, we add a 25 pound weight vest, instead of just bear crawling down the field, we bear crawl dragging 100 plus pound chains. We incorporate a Military style training to where you're constantly moving for a certain period of time, while incorporating your whole body. Every single thing that Nate and I are certified in, we had to physically prove to the instructor certifying us that we could do and endure. Nate and I are the only people in Richmond certified to train ropes, and there are only 2 other people in Virginia that are as well.   Another thing is we never tell anybody beforehand what they're gonna be doing, ever. The reason behind that is to shock your body- if you go into a workout knowing what you're doing, you kind of pre plan, you understand what your gonna be doing, so you're already somewhat mentally there...but if you don't know what you're doing when you go into it, it's harder, you're not ready for it..you're in shock your body's in shock and it makes you work harder. Going back to the Military aspect: it's almost like a Military/survival type training- it sounds kinda weird- but at the same time it's like if something were to happen, would you be able to react, would you be able to get yourself/your loved ones out of a situation using your body? Would you be able to crawl out, climb out, run out? Would be be able to react? And that's why we don't let people know what they're going to do, because that's going to get results. And no matter what the weather we're out there training, as long as there's no lightning, we don't care...we're out there. You're body works better in uncomfortable situations- mentally and physically. To be brutally honest- it's not for everybody- and that's our niche, that's what makes us stand out. We take people who want to reach their breaking point. My ideal client is someone who wants to go out there and will never quit. No matter how bad it gets (we'll never push somebody to injury) but we want someone that is not going to quit, that is never going to complain, and is just gonna suck it up and do it."
Brian and Nate with John Brookfield: Creator of Battling Ropes and multiple World Record Holder

Stair walking Gladiator Style

Q:I know your wife Mary travels a lot for work, how do you manage holding down the fort with the children and training daily?
"Nate and I used to train together every night, both of us were out there, now we switched it. We kinda figured out each other's schedules. Nate has his daughter every single Wednesday no matter what, and he has his daughter every other Tuesday no matter what. So what we came up with is he trains Monday and Thursday, I train Tuesdays and Fridays. It's worked out perfectly, and so I added on Wednesday as well. It works out well because it also gives us time with our kids. The worst thing was, it got to the point where I'd wake up in the morning with my kids, get them ready, ship them off to school, pick them up from school, get home, and then I'd have a babysitter and I'd leave....then I'd come back and just put them to sleep. I wasn't getting that quality time with them....so we decided that we had to have that quality time with our kids. At the same time I was like "if I'm gonna have a babysitter, I don't want it to be a stranger all the time...I want it to be a family member." So I started with every Tuesday my mom watches them while I train, on Fridays Mary's home, and Wednesdays are my wild card day- I'll either get Mary, my mother in law, or I have to get somebody. We've made it so it's more comfortable for us, we get to spend more time with our kids, but we're still there- they were kind of bummed out at first when we stopped being there at the same time. But we've structured it so that it's more family friendly for us."

Q: How does health and fitness translate into your home life? Do you consider yourself strict when it comes to diet and exercise with your children?
"I try to keep my family active whether we are in the back yard running around and playing sports or going on a bike ride or a hike on the local trails. I do my best to keep my family active as much as possible with fun activities that we can all enjoy. I don't know if I would use the word strict when it comes to my families diet, but I do care about what we eat. I try to do Organic and fresh foods as much as possible and I stay away from processed food unless there is absolutely no other option and everyone is hungry" 


Q: If you could give the best piece of advice to our readers who are interested in pursuing a more active lifestyle or just need a little push for their daily exercise routine, what would it be?
"I would tell them to pick an outside activity that they enjoy, but will challenge them physically and do it for an hour each day. If the person has an issue motivating themselves then I would suggest that they look into group physical training. Group training is a great way to start off because there's tons of motivation and the willingness to push the person beside you as well as yourself. Another thing that you can do to really get yourself out of the house and start training is to sign yourself up for a local road race or obstacle course race. Obviously leave yourself enough time to prepare for the event, but this will motivate you to get in gear. I come across people all of the time who say that they just don't have the time in their busy schedules to do something active for an hour each day, but then I find out that they make time to watch 3-4 hours of television each night. In my years of training I have come to realize that physical training isn't for everyone. There are some people that just don't want it and don't care. If you want results and you want to become healthier and more active you just have to do it and stay consistent. Its that simple."


Q: If someone is interested in training with you guys, how would they go about doing that? 
"If someone wants to come and train with us they are more than welcome to do so. I will forewarn them that we are not the average training group and that we do have requirements that the individual must be able to do. The reason for the requirements is because we train individuals who are already in shape, but want to take their training to the next level.  Our exercises are designed to not only physically, but mentally wear you down. People can get an idea of what we do and who we are through our website. They can also contact us that way too.www.gladiatortrainingva.com"

Q: What does it take for someone to qualify as "in shape" enough to train with you guys?
"You have to prove yourself to us. We have certain stipulations....you can't just come out and workout with us. If you can't do certain things you won't be able to. The main requirements that we have are: you have be able to run a mile under 7 minutes, you have to be able to do 10 strict pull ups-which means locking out all the way and no kicking- keep your body completely straight (girl or guy), 50 straight crunches non stop, 35-50 push-ups nonstop in correct form. We may tweak it a little bit for women, but not by much. If you can't do that, we're not saying you can't workout with us...we're saying come back when you can. We want the people that want to be there, and if we can tell that they really want to be there more than anything and they won't give up, they have heart, then we'll work with them. I tell them straight up: you're not gonna hold us back, we're gonna keep moving forward and doing what we're doing, you need to try to keep up.  It's a lifestyle- it has to be a lifestyle."

Q: If you had to pick a favorite workout, what would it be and why?
"I would have to say that our chain workouts are the best. The training is called "Chain Reaction". We use 100lbs chains to do various workouts that gets your heart pumping like crazy, your breathing heavy and it builds raw strength. It's and amazing cardio blaster and strength builder. It engages every part of your body and it's the most physically demanding workout that we offer to our clients."

Q: And since this is the Father's Day blog post I have to ask- what's the best part about being a dad?
"The best thing about being a dad for me is spending time with my kids and taking them on adventures and teaching them the types of things that my father taught me. I love taking them on hikes and teaching them how to fish and to respect the outdoors. I also love seeing their faces light up when I take them somewhere new or they see something that they haven't seen before. I really enjoy being with them and watching them grow and experience life and its lessons that it has to offer."

Look at this stunning family! (Brian with wife Mary, son Brice, and daughter Lucy)

"I'm so lucky to be able to say that my kids have the best dad in the world. You hear that a lot, but I truly mean it. There is not a better father out there. My kids will always be smart, active, fun, happy and adventurous, because Brian exposes them to all facets of the world on a daily basis. He's always present and involved, and I'm so blessed my kids have such a strong role model and father!" -Mary Beckstoffer

Thank you so much, Brian, for opening up and letting me share your story with so many people! It is so awesome to see how passionate and enthusiastic you are about your business and your children.

During the interview with Brian, I learned so much in such a small amount of time and really hope that all of you find it as inspiring and useful as we at La Bella have. If you're feeling brave, and are up for challenging/pushing yourself mentally and physically, you should definitely give these guys a call! They are both super friendly, personable, and they obviously know they're stuff...and THAT, my friends, is what you should be looking for in someone you are trusting with your physical being 
^If you are at all interested in pursuing this style of training, either shoot them an email: info@gladiatortrainingva.com
or give them a call: (804)551-5315

La Bella Hair Studio. Live, look, feel beautiful.
Inspire.

Wednesday, May 28, 2014

La Bella Vita: Mother's Day Makeover Pt. II

La Bella's slogan "Live, Look, Feel Beautiful" is more to us than just a catch phrase-- it is a vision set forth by our founder/owner Jessie because she knew that she wanted our salon to represent more than just helping people with their looks (although we are pretty good at it!). She wanted La Bella Hair Studio to encompass and embrace beauty in all aspects of life, which is something we strive for every day. It is important to embrace the beauty within yourself and the community in which you live.This year on our blog we're featuring a series called "La Bella Vita," meaning "The Beautiful Life." We have made it our mission to find twelve special people within our community, who have somehow impacted the lives around them, to be featured every month.

May marks the fifth month of the year and brings many great things, like flowers and sunny, warm weather, but above all else, it is the month to celebrate and appreciate all the wonderful Mothers in the world! This May, we wanted to give back by offering a Mother's Day Makeover to a couple of very special moms who live here locally in Richmond. We held a drawing and, although we would've loved to feature all of you awesome moms out there, we narrowed it down to two wonderful women-- each with a story to tell, and me here to share it!


Our 2nd Mother's Day Makeover winner is Donna Kies! She is a US Army veteran, mother of 4, and an ESL teacher who has been happily married for 29 years! She has had quite the adventure of a life traveling the world, raising her kids (including twins!), and making the big decision to switch careers while being a mom at the same time! Introducing Donna: The before pic.....




I was privileged enough to be the one to do Donna's makeover, and during the time I got to know her story, I was very moved and happy for the experience. After hearing everything she had to say, we decided to do something a little different for this post: Donna wanted to share her story with all of you directly (instead of  Q&A format). I am so excited because this is a first for any of La Bella's Blog posts! We hope you enjoy it: 



          My name is Donna M.H. Kies,  I married my high school sweetheart, David Kies.  We dated for 7years, and finally got married.   We have been married for 29 years.  We have four children, Jason, 27, twin girls, Frances and Alexandra, 23, and Taylor, 22. 
          I graduated from Tucker High School in 1980.  I went to Chowan College and got an associated degree in Photography.  I joined the U.S. Army and was a photographer and a writer for the newspapers.  It was a great job with a variety of experiences…threw a grenade, firing machine guns and meeting famous people like Kenny Rogers.  It showed me a different world..
          I got married and got out of the Army to have babies.  My first child was born in Alaska where I was stationed.  We traveled back to Richmond to be close to family.  Three years later, I was pregnant with twins.  We were so excited.  Things were going well until about the 25 week.  The doctor said that it was twin-to twin transfusion where one baby gives all the blood to the other baby so there is a discrepancy in size.  The small baby measured 3 weeks smaller than the big baby. He said that he had 3 sets in the past year, but only two children had survived.  No set of twins had survived that year.  So, it was definitely serious!.  It was devastating.  I prayed, my church prayed, and my friends’ churches prayed.  It was awesome to see how God works.  After it was diagnosed through ultra sound, it began to reverse itself gradually.  The little baby began to catch up in size.  I looked for a name that meant “giver”, but I couldn’t find one, but I did find Gabrielle which means “God is my strength”.  So this is my little giver baby’s middle name…Alexandra Gabrielle; she had to have Gabrielle in her name because this is the reason they are alive!!  They were born at 38 weeks…fat and happy.. 6lbs 5oz. and 5lbs 10 oz…fat and happy!!  And….thirteen months 10 days later, came baby number 4..Taylor…  He slept so much the first six months that I called the doctor to ask if there was a sleeping disease that I need to watch out for.  He said, “just count your blessings!” 

Donna with her 4 beautiful children: 1993

          I went back to school to become a teacher when Taylor was 6 months old. I love helping people, and by teaching, I could help my husband support us.  He worked two jobs and had very long hours.  I could, also, help the students.  I started taking one class each semester, at night.  I did homework when everyone one taking a nap.  When the girls went to kindergarten, Taylor went to preschool part time, I went to school full time.  Seven years later, I graduated from VCU with a Masters in Teaching, and a Bachelors in English, and I started teaching right  away.  I worked in Hanover County for a year and a half, but realized my children still needed me at home, so I stayed at home a couple more years.  When Taylor started the sixth grade, I started in Henrico County.  The next year I came to Tucker.  That was eleven years ago. 
          I love teaching the ESL students; they really need someone at school...Now I understand the term “school marm”.  That’s what I am…I am really their school mom..and I love it !!  Being a mom really is the best job; It is what I do, not only to my children, but to the ESL students who need someone at school to help them sometimes get through the day, to work a school issue, and to think about what their future may be like.
          Our life was once quite hectic when the children were young and in school with all the activities that the children did.  We were active in Church, played soccer, played a musical instrument, and we active in the Boys and Girls Scouts.  There was always something to do or someplace to be.  Most of our activities were done as a family since they were all so close in age. So, it was hard from having many activities to ….nothing because they all left pretty much at the same time…It just took time to adjust.
           Now, life is a little slower, not too much though.  My husband and I are having fun!!  We go hunting and kayaking and we travel together. And sometimes….I can get him to go dancing with me!!
          My life without children…would have been…no life….  I have always known that I wanted children, and knew that I would have children… It is all I have ever wanted to be.  And if I couldn’t have had children?  I would have adopted…or….taught!!  There are always children who need a mom…and love.

A more recent photo of the entire family!

Thank you so much Donna, for opening up to us and sharing your amazing life story as a mother! Also, I speak on behalf of La Bella when I say thank you so much for your service to our country! You have had quite the adventure and, being a mother of one, I cannot imagine having 4 children so close in age....all the while having your hands full with pursuing your masters and becoming a high school teacher (which is like being a mother to hundreds more!).

The wait is over, now we reveal Donna's new look: The after pics...



         















Such a beautiful transformation! Once again Donna, we cannot thank you enough for sharing your story and letting us give you the makeover you deserve! 


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Inspire.

Friday, May 16, 2014

La Bella Vita: Mother's Day Makeover Pt. I

La Bella's slogan "Live, Look, Feel Beautiful" is more to us than just a catch phrase-- it is a vision set forth by our founder/owner Jessie because she knew that she wanted our salon to represent more than just helping people with their looks (although we are pretty good at it!). She wanted La Bella Hair Studio to encompass and embrace beauty in all aspects of life, which is something we strive for every day. It is important to embrace the beauty within yourself and the community in which you live.This year on our blog we're featuring a series called "La Bella Vita," meaning "The Beautiful Life." We have made it our mission to find twelve special people within our community, who have somehow impacted the lives around them, to be featured every month.

May marks the fifth month of the year and brings many great things, like flowers and sunny, warm weather, but above all else, it is the month to celebrate and appreciate all the wonderful Mothers in the world! This May, we wanted to give back by offering a Mother's Day Makeover to a couple of very special moms who live here locally in Richmond. We held a drawing and, although we would've loved to feature all of you awesome moms out there, we narrowed it down to two wonderful women-- each with a story to tell, and me here to share it!


Our first Mother's Day Makeover winner is Sherry Dew! She is a doting mother to a lovely daughter and and new grandmother to beautiful twin boys! Sherry is also the owner of BBQ Bliss Catering & More. She's dedicated the past few years to building her catering company from the ground up, and I have to say, having eaten her food before, she is doing a fabulous job!



In 2013 BBQ Bliss catered the launch of La Brezza


Well, now it is time for us to give back. We had Sherry come in for her makeover and answer a few questions for us. We will get to that in a minute....it wouldn't be a fun makeover story without a before and after! Let's start with the before so you can put a face with the name!


We surprised Sherry with a makeover on Saturday May 10th

While Sherry was here at La Bella, she sat down and answered a few questions:

Q: Tell us a little about yourself! Where are you from and what brought you here?

A: "Disputanta Va. Family and friends highly recommended the salon and I am in desperate need of a makeover!"

Q: Tell us about your children and how becoming a mother changed your life:

A: "I have one wonderful daughter. Having children teaches you patience and most of all you can never how much you can love an individual until you have children."

Q: How would you describe your life and experiences when you were a single mother?

A: "Growing up in a loving family gives you the strength and knowledge to raise your children with love and care no matter what life hands you!"

Q: What is your favorite memory of your daughter from when she was growing up?

A: "All are favorite memories, good or bad-- most of all, not necessarily a memory, but knowing you raised a beautiful and caring daughter that is now an exceptional mother of twin boys-4 months old!"

Q: We have had the pleasure of enjoying the delicious food from BBQ Bliss, your catering company! What inspired you to start the business and how has it changed you as a person?

A: "Family and friends gathering on weekends enjoying food we prepared finally convinced us to open a catering business. Believe it or not I am a shy person, this has opened me up and has allowed the true personality inside I always had to shine"

Q: How do you strike a balance between being a mother and a business owner?

A: "Never forgetting to make time for everyone. Family always comes first"

Voila! What a beautiful transformation


Thank you Sherry for opening up to us and letting us get to know you! It was such a pleasure having you in the salon and we hope you love your new look! 



Sherry's daughter Ashleigh stopped by while she was here: "All that I am or ever hope to be, I owe to my beautiful mother."

If you are looking for a caterer for any sort of event- whether it be a family reunion, wedding, birthday party, etc- check out BBQ Bliss Catering and More! Call them at (804) 712-7652

Stay tuned for La Bella Vita's Mother's Day Makeover, Pt.II!

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Inspire.

Tuesday, March 11, 2014

La Bella Vita Featuring: Cinderella Dreams

La Bella's slogan "Live, Look, Feel Beautiful" is more to us than just a catch phrase-- it is a vision set forth by our founder/owner Jessie because she knew that she wanted our salon to represent more than just helping people with their looks (although we are pretty good at it!). She wanted La Bella Hair Studio to encompass and embrace beauty in all aspects of life, which is something we strive for every day. It is important to embrace the beauty within yourself and the community in which you live.This year on our blog we're featuring a series called "La Bella Vita," meaning "The Beautiful Life." We have made it our mission to find twelve special people within our community, who have somehow impacted the lives around them, to be featured every month.

March marks the 3rd month of La Bella Vita, and we are featuring Cinderella Dreams, a cause we have grown very fond of- and we know you will too.







"Can you imagine being a teenage girl, dreaming about attending her Junior or Senior Prom, only to realize the cost of a dress is out of reach?". The Cinderella Dreams Prom Dress Project is a cornerstone project of the Midlothian Junior Women's Club . During the late winter and early spring, the club collects donated prom dresses, jewelry, shoes, makeup and other prom-related accessories at Greater Richmond area YMCA branches and Puritan Cleaners. With the help of community sponsors and volunteers, there is a 'shopping' event, where girls can shop for and select a dress and accessories for free. Every woman remembers her prom night (what she wore, her date, hair, etc) it is the first most important night in a young lady's life. Cinderella Dreams started in a woman's garage 9 years ago, evolving so much that last year they received 1400 donated dresses and  over 450 girls came out and found their dress!


 Every girl deserves to look and feel her absolute best, and with this project they all have the chance. This is a dream come true for so many girls, and as soon as we heard about the cause we wanted to have a part in it all. La Bella Hair Studio will be donating prom updos to 4 girls, chosen by raffle. You can make a difference too! Either by donating dresses to the drop off locations, helping to get the shopping location ready, or by volunteering your time to be a Fairy God Mother for one of the girls. Either way, no matter what, every little bit helps. The more people who are able to help, the more girls who get to feel beautiful on their big night! 





More About Donations
*All area Puritan Cleaners and YMCA locations are accepting donations for 2014!
The wishlist for donations includes:





  • New and like-new prom/evening gowns. They ask that gowns should be recent styles, from 2009 or later, spring, prom-style gowns. Please no causal dresses.
  • All sizes are needed – from size 0 up to size 28 and even higher. They take any size!
  • New and like-new evening bags.
  • New, unopened cosmetics, nail polish and perfume. Samples are appreciated!
  • Jewelry – earrings, bracelets and necklaces – the girls especially loved rhinestone/CZ, silver, and pearl jewelry for their big night!
  • Hair accessories and hair spray.
  • New, unopened hosiery.
  • Gift certificates for services and other necessities: department stores, hairdressers, nail technicians, restaurants, limousines, shoe stores, accessory stores, and any other ‘prom’ services.
  • They ask all gently used items be in clean and ready for the girls to wear!

  • Feel free to email donations@cinderelladreams.net for more information on donations.


                                                     
                                                     Shopping Hours for 2014
    Storefront located in Westchester Commons between Regal Cinemas and Petco

    Friday, March 14th 5-9PM

    Sunday, March 16th 1-4PM
    Tuesday, March 18th 7-9PM
                                                            Fairy God Mother

    Fairy God Mothers are volunteers who work as personal shoppers for the girls, so they have help finding their prom dress It also helps keep a certain level of discretion so the ones getting the dresses don't run into their peers while shopping. What a wonderful way to make a difference- working personally with someone to create their perfect look for their big day. I imagine it is very rewarding!



    As you can see, there are so many different ways to lend a hand a make a difference in someone's life. Hopefully we can all find a way to help no matter what form that help is in! Sign up to volunteer at: http://www.signupgenius.com/go/70A0D4CA8AF2B0-20142



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    Tuesday, February 4, 2014

    "La Bella Vita" Featuring: Stephanie and Francesca Gasper

    La Bella's slogan "Live, Look, Feel Beautiful" is more to us than just a catch phrase- it was a vision set forth by our founder/owner Jessie because she knew that she wanted our salon to represent more than just helping people with their looks (although we are pretty good at it). She wanted La Bella Hair Studio to encompass and embrace beauty in all aspects of life, which is something we strive for everyday. It is important t embrace the beauty within yourself and the community in which you live.The year of 2014 has been dubbed "La Bella Vita" meaning "The Beautiful Life".We have made it our mission to find 12 special people within our community, who have somehow impacted the lives around them, to be featured every month.

    Well, we are now in our second month of the year, so it is time for Round 2 of "La Bella Vita"

    February is known as the month of love, and gained its reputation thanks to Valentine's Day being on the 14th. The universal symbol for love is the heart, which actually symbolizes more than just that during this month. Many people are unaware that February means Heart Disease Awareness! It is very important that you take the time to learn about all different forms of heart disease and how to keep you and your loved ones informed on prevention and treatment. Heart Disease is leading cause of death in America and can come in many different forms from many different sources. 

    Congenital Heart Disease (CHD) is what we will be highlighting in this post. It  is considered to be the most common birth defect worldwide, and is the leading cause of birth defect related deaths. CHD Awareness Week is from February 7th-14th. For more information on how you can make a difference in the cause, visit the Congenital Heart Information Network

    Featured for February in La Bella Vita are TWO very special people from our community. Both have proven to be fighters and, in my opinion, have the strongest hearts! Representing CHD Awareness is...



    Stephanie and Francesca Gasper!

    Stephanie is a loving mother of 2, who has been fighting her own battle with CHD since birth. Her story is one that shows us that you can overcome anything, and her strength is an inspiration. Francesca is Stephanie's daughter, who was born with the same form of CHD and has already proven to be a strong little girl having already overcome an open heart surgery at the young age of 6 months. I wanted Stephanie to share with us her story, give us an idea of the journey she and Francesca have been on, and tell us what we could do to make a difference.


    Q: First and foremost, let's introduce- tell us a little about yourself!


    "My name is Stephanie Gasper. I am 26 years old. I have a sexy husband and two amazing kids that I thank God every day for. Aiden (healthy heart) just turned 5 and Francesca (my heart baby) is 16 months old."


    Stephanie, her "sexy husband" Alex, son Aiden, and daughter Francesca

    Q: What exactly is Congenital Heart disease? 

    "CHD can describe a number of different problems affecting the heart. It is the most common type of birth defect, and is also the number 1 birth defect that causes death in the first year of life."


    Q: What is done to prevent/treat someone with CHD and what are the signs? Is there a cure?

    "To prevent CHD, women who are expecting should get good prenatal care.  Treatment all depends on the condition that the person has. Rapid breathing, blue coloring, fatigue, poor feeding, and poor weight gain [are signs of CHD]. Surgeries and medication are forms of treatments but they are not necessarily a cure for CHD. When someone is born with CHD, they have CHD for life."

    Q: CHD Awareness Week is Feb.7-14, is there anything we could do as a community to help raise awareness and contribute to furthering the cause?

     "One is educating yourself. 1 in 110 babies are born with CHD and majority of the hospitals in the US do not test infants when they are born. So bringing awareness to people is a great idea. There is a great non-profit organization here in Richmond called Mended Little Hearts and they work nationally and in the communities to support children with CHD and also their families, along with bring awareness"

    Q: Would you mind sharing how CHD has directly effected you and your family's lives? 

    "At just a week old, my parents were told that something was wrong with my heart and soon found out I had A-V canal defect, one out of the many congenital heart diseases.  At just five months old I underwent my first open-heart surgery followed by another one when I was 3 and my most recent surgery at age 17. As a baby, I would get too tired to suck a bottle, so my parent’s had to tube feed me up until I had my first surgery. They would also have to bring me into the doctor’s office for weekly check-ups and weigh-ins. Once my weight gain plateaued that meant it was time to operate. My first surgery, the surgeons actually took my heart out of my chest to work on it. Just thinking about that gives me chills. Even though I had CHD, my parents never held me back from doing things I wanted to do. The doctors told my mom, treat her like a normal kid-- so they did. I was enrolled in dance classes at age 3 and danced through high school.  But my story doesn’t stop here, when I was 20 wks pregnant with my second child they had found something wrong with her heart but being in utero it was hard to tell exactly what was wrong. Many babies have VSDs (hole in the heart) that close up before or shortly after birth, so I had hoped and prayed that was the case, but it wasn’t. At one day old, they had a pediatric cardiologist do some extensive tests on my little one and afterwards, she, too was diagnosed with A-V canal defect.  Talk about history repeating itself! A-V canal defect is a spectrum disorder and luckily, for Francesca her defect is not as severe has mine. Francesca was able to suck a bottle. She was just unable to feed for long periods of time, she got tired after a few minutes, so she would feed many times during they day but only consume small amounts. My husband and I would take Francesca every other week to get weighed to make sure she was growing. At six months we went up to UVA hospital and she had her first (and hopefully last) open heart surgery. Her surgery and recovery went very well. Now she still has a small hole in her heart that they will have to keep an eye on to make sure it does not become larger. But other than her CHD she is a thriving 16 month old who is so full of happiness and personality you would never know she was sick. She’s little, but fierce. She’s a fighter, like her mom!"


    Stephanie and Francesca will continue to prove their strength while winning the battle against CHD


    Two extremely beautiful ladies who have overcome so much already in their young lives, embracing life to its fullest each with a heart stronger than before. Thank you so much to Stephanie for sharing your story, and opening up to us in an effort to help raise awareness. Not only are you and Francesca an inspiration to all of us, you have given hope to many who may be in your same situation. 



    Please take the time to see how you can make a difference in raising awareness with CHD and Heart Disease! It's little effort for a big cause and can save lives.


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    American Heart Association



    http://mendedlittlehearts.org/mlh.htm